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How sexual attraction actually works and how you can use it!

The Science of Sex Appeal, one of the most important series you will ever watch if you are dating: http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal/  http://youtu.be/MVhKSzSpXMA http://youtu.be/1JSqpCjbdcM http://youtu.be/ILNeqodG2Hc http://youtu.be/kcTWKdrJ3LE Advertisements


Meet Quick A majority of people that spend time talking, first, on online dating, seem to be disappointed. The majority have a wonderful set of emails and phone calls and think they have met the love of their life. .. but when they meet, the chemistry is not there and both parties are twice as hurt by the … Continue reading

Something Different To Do On A Date – Try This



“Dating Mills” are big media companies and investment groups that buy up dating brands, throw all of the members on a huge NSA-like computer system and market fake profiles at users while harvesting and selling their personal data to marketing companies and “others”.  These “Dating Mills” are rife with hackers, overseas scammers, fake profiles from … Continue reading

What kind of contract do “Slave” kinky people sign…?

Accompanied by: Temporary Consensual “Master Contract” and Negotiated Boundaries Contract for the Enslavement Term. This entire three (3) contract package is known as the Enslavement Documents. Of my own free will, I ___________________________, herein known as the slave, hereby grant you, __________________________, herein known as the master, full ownership, care and use of both the … Continue reading

Science now knows that men and women have totally different brain wiring

Men & Women have totally different brain processes. Have you ever wondered why men can never explain their feelings and women can never understand male territorial turf protection? Are you curious about why men-friends sabotage any new guy that comes on the scene when a woman tells them they are dating or why men feel compelled to … Continue reading


WATCH THIS SHOCKING NEWS SEGMENT: /a.js?p=1&q=eric%20schmidt%20sex%20penthouse&s=wikipedia&from=nlp_wiki/s.js?q=eric%20schmidt%20sex%20penthouse&l=wt-wt&dl=en/y.js?x=1&q=eric%20schmidt%20sex%20penthouse&l=us-en&safe=1/y.js?s=1&q=eric%20schmidt%20sex%20penthouse&l=wt-wt/d.js?q=eric%20schmidt%20sex%20penthouse&l=wt-wt&p=1&s=0&dl=en&ct=US// < ![CDATA[ // < ![CDATA[ // < ![CDATA[ // < ![CDATA[ // Your Guide To Silicon Valley Tech Sex Deviants Schmidt reportedly brings ladies back to this $15 million pad. To be fair, nobody knows for sure exactly what goes on in Eric Schmidt’s $15 million penthouse at 31 W. … Continue reading

The Math of Internet Dating

Online Dating Math Men respond to 100% of the contacts from women online, yet women only respond to 3% of the guys. This leaves men with no choice but to use partial cut and paste because they would otherwise have to spend 50 hours a week composing personal messages that nobody ever looked at or that never did them any good. … Continue reading

Discovery Channel Show Details Science of Attraction

You may be a victim of the media If you are “attractive” ;  If you go for people (without looking for depth) who always use you and dump you as they search for attraction without depth then you are in the “cute rut”.  Science says that women with “model attractive” aquiline facial features will usually … Continue reading

Newsweek Covers Silicon Valley Treatment of Women. Is dating harder in Silicon Valley?

Newsweek blows the doors off Silicon Valley and Stanford’s Misogynistic RAPE CULTURE – Top Stanford athlete caught in mid rape – Cover-up Rape culture at Stanford threatens sorority girls careers, and reputations, if they tell ! – Musk, Theil, Kleiner Perkins, Ellison outed by ex wives and abused girlfriends – Google Hooker-Gate Death and Eric … Continue reading

The “Husband List” that has been floating around on the internet:

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Marriage Guide: There are many points of view on this ranging from: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tracy-mcmillan/why-youre-not-married_b_822088.html to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage This section was developed by a vast number of couples, half of whom had failed in their relationships and learned from that and half of whom had succeeded in their relationships. Some parents teach their daughters not to develop a career and to … Continue reading


SEX- What is it good for?A few expert articles on the subject: ————————————————————————————————–   Why women moan during sexIan Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex weekly on The Chart. Read more from him on his website, GoodInBed. All you have to do is watch nearly any depiction of … Continue reading

Long Distance Relationship Tips

Most long distance relationships exist to provide one or both parties with a rationalization to limit the possibility of actually engaging in a “real relationship”. In the case of men who fly women in for short flings, those men are almost always flying in, and sleeping with, many other women because they can, and because … Continue reading

Brenda’s Dating Guide according to Brenda

“BLIND DATING 101: Match.com  An Internet date is a “blind date”. Emails and phone calls in advance of meeting are fairly pointless because the other person will make up their mind based on physical attraction in the first 3-5 minutes no matter what you talked about before hand. Advance communication will actual make the rejection … Continue reading

Dating The CEO’s. Top Red Flags. (VIDEO)

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How Match.com, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish do market selection

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What do Tattoos say about you?

Tattoos are very controversial in dating. Let’s discuss: Flema- “I adorn my body to share the beauty I have found with the world.”Andrew- “People get pressured by their peers to get tattoos because they think they are buying acceptance from the small group that surrounds and judges them that they hang out with. In reality, that … Continue reading

Are you dating a guy that beats you? How to get out!

Why many NFL beaten wives become apologists for the beaters: They don’t have careers, are “husband-slaves” and the millions of dollars are suddenly slipping away… “You better back me up, Girl, or all that money you’ve been spendin’ at the mall is gonna disappear overnight…” Domestic violence survivors: How we escaped By Melanie Hicken  AT … Continue reading

INFOGRAPHIC on why match.com is hitting the skids…

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Why men and women can’t be “just friends” if they met on a dating site:

It is IMPOSSIBLE. Watch the movie below and then ask yourself the question again.Andrea- “If one person is attracted to the other there will eventually be tension. That person will either secretly obsess or feel that they are biding-their-time, stalk, sabotage real dates or otherwise be a pill. If you are both totally unattractive then … Continue reading

The guy arrives to pick up his date and her father hands him this:

APPLICATION FOR PERMISSION TO DATE MY DAUGHTER NOTE:This application will be incomplete and rejected unless accompanied by a complete financial statement, job history, lineage, and current medical report from your doctor. NAME______________________________________ DATE OF BIRTH_____________ HEIGHT____________ WEIGHT_____________ IQ__________ NATIONAL INSURANCE #____________________ DRIVERS LICENSE #________________ BOY SCOUT RANK AND BADGES _____________________________________________ HOME ADDRESS__________________________ TOWN/COUNTY___________ POSTCODE_____ Do you have ONE male and … Continue reading

How Much Does A Modern Date Cost According To Tindr and Match.com Users?

The results are in! Men pay for dates. Women rarely pay. Tindr and Match.com users have been discussing this on Reddit and Huffington Post. Let’s look at the final averaged results. If the woman has idealized (modified) abs, surgically dramatic facial structure or enhanced breasts, the costs are: First Meeting Coffee Date: Gas – $4.00 … Continue reading

Stumped for some questions to ask your date? Here’s a few from our readers…

What Questions should you ask somebody before you date them, sleep with them or marry them? What are some key questions that we don’t remember when we are in-person with the new love candidate? Education: Hobbies: Interests: Are you afraid to get close? Are you ambitious? Are you emotionally available? Can you define this term? … Continue reading


Everything you type into a dating site or social network is recorded and used to sell you things or aim you towards certain marketing choices that you are not aware of. Don’t put your whole life on the internet. Check the resources at: http://www.privacytools.io and http://www.privacypage.met See this ACLU poster, below:

OK Cupid, Match.com, Plenty of Fish & “BIG DATING” companies caught manipulating your mind and your emotions.

OK Cupid, Match.com, Plenty of Fish & “BIG DATING” companies caught manipulating your mind and your emotions. Time to cancel!     Using Dead Soldiers Photos To Sell Dating Subscriptions. Buys hundreds of dead soldier photos at a time . Tipped off by VA Staff. Also using dead prostitute photos.   OkCupid: We treat our … Continue reading

San Francisco High End Anonymous Sex Clubs Make Come-Back Via Millennial and Truvada

You enter a large warehouse, lit with candles, lava lamps and dark moody techno lighting… In various alcoves are banquet tables with blankets over them and pillows. Draped over each table are naked women, two per table, their legs parted, in “doggy-style” position. Men are having sex, without condoms, with each woman. Buddha Bar music … Continue reading


Can Men and Women who met on a dating site be “Just Friends” THE FEATURE FILM PT1 [KGVID width=”320″ height=”240″ downloadlink=”true”]http://www.sfdatesite.com/wp-content/uploads/Can-Men-and-Women-who-met-on-a-dating-sites-be-just-Friends-THE-FEATURE-FILM-PT1.mp4[/KGVID] Can Men and Women who met on a dating site be “Just Friends” THE FEATURE FILM PT2 [KGVID width=”320″ height=”240″ downloadlink=”true”]http://www.sfdatesite.com/wp-content/uploads/Can-Men-and-Women-who-met-on-a-dating-sites-be-just-Friends-THE-FEATURE-FILM-PT2.mp4[/KGVID] Can Men and Women who met on a dating site be “Just Friends” … Continue reading

How Symmetry Works

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Attraction; Are you programmed to limit your choices based on face stereotypes?

Parents, peers and school societies program people to only date people (breeding) who are genetically formed with the same facial symmetry and body structure. This creates objectified relationships, based on looks and not depth, which usually end in cheating, “who-used-who” accusations, viscous divorce lawsuits, etc.. (ie: When actors marry each other)  the point is: “go … Continue reading

The bad girls of Silicon Valley. Don’t become one!

(SOURCE: SOMO1) Google executives hired more than 1000 of them this year. They hire them to sway politicians, to get contracts and to show off their power. Yahoo executives and investors hired hundreds of them to attend “corporate parties”. Kleiner Perkins Venture Capital Firm sent hundreds of them to institutional fund managers, to get stock … Continue reading

Racial Preferences in Dating

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Is Monogamy For you?

Monogamy ———————————— (CNN) – Kristen Stewart, Ryan Phillippe, LeAnn Rimes, Jude Law, Mark Sanford and Bill Clinton. What do they have in common? Many are quick to label a person who strays from his or her marriage or relationship as a “cheater,” but it’s really not that simple. It’s time for our culture to wake up and smell … Continue reading

People Who Use Concocted, Fake, Personalities

Politicians and fake daters use the following tricks to make you think they are different than they are. You will see all of these tactics in bars Frat House and Sororities teach you how to act fake in order to manipulate others in business and society by constantly over-expressing with your face. You are taught … Continue reading


THE MODERN ONLINE DATING SCHOOL- A CRASH COURSE IN THE HARSH REALITY OF ONLINE LOVE: NOTHING works the same in ONLINE DATING as it does in the real world. Read these tips from many of the millions of men & women online dating. This is what actual people have experienced hundreds of thousands of times … Continue reading

In online dating, are women just money-seeking gold-diggers and men just looking for sex?

In online dating, are women just money-seeking gold-diggers and men just looking for sex? The answers is both yes, and no! #1: Because the odds of getting sex are increased 100 times by using internet dating sites, and men are driven by sex, men learn that if they keep at it, they will eventually get … Continue reading


Online Dating Red Flags: Warning Signs of a Catfish With more than 40 million men and women online looking for love, there are bound to be some scam artists out there. A “catfish” is a person who creates a false online identity in the hopes of luring people into romantic relationships. Nev Schulman starred in the 2010 documentary, Catfish, … Continue reading

Can people tell if you have A Pinocci-nose plastic surgery nose “upgrade”

Can you tell?:

The “golden ratio” face and elitism. Why internet face choices are so unfair!

People judge other people in online dating photos based, in large part, on the “Golden Ratio”. “Cheer-leader”-looking girls will usually pick symmetrical faced people because they are only encouraged to be around symmetrical faced people by society, when they are young. Yes, it is face racism, but we have no laws, curriculum or social process … Continue reading

The Jeffries Article on Dating

Stuart Jeffries Is Online dating destroying love? Online dating is now one of the most common ways to start a relationship. But is it fulfilling our dreams – or shattering our cherished ideal of romance? Online dating: offers the dream of true love but, for many, casual sex is the aim. Photograph: Alamy ‘I’m telling … Continue reading

Are the owners of Match.com and OKCUPID missing compassion?

This amazing report discuss the way that Match.com, OK CUPID and PLENTY OF FISH use people like cattle via automated processing instead of the careful attention to human emotions that match-making requires: [pdf-embedder url=”http://www.sfdatesite.com/wp-content/uploads/weAttract_whitepaper.pdf”%5D These online dating testimonials go into more detail:


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What, Actually, is “Sex Appeal”?

DISCOVERY CHANNEL STUDY Discovery Channel’s Science of Sex Appeal- Cliff Notes: http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal/ Social, media and genetic programming makes you do things you do not mean to do in the dating process. To be successful in dating you have to actually NOT go with your “intuition” or “first impressions” because science now shows us that it … Continue reading

Getting paid to be in a relationship: Transactional Relationships

Transactional Relationships In the current recession, many people date for expense offset. One must be clear, up front, if this is their agenda. If your dating partner has visions of a traditional relationship and later finds out your plan is to use them for income, the results will never be good. The best program is to … Continue reading

Infidelity Tips

Infidelity, or, Monogomy as a Myth COMMENTS Carol – “Men cannot be monogomous for more than 3 months,  if ever, and women will never be able to understand why not. End of story. Just accept it” Robert- “Those people who always sleep with hot people and then complain that they always get “their heart broken” deserve everything they get. … Continue reading

How dating sites rate your value as an asset:

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FACE “CLASS-ISM” & PREJUDICE: Prejudging people by their facial symmetry

Just like we have laws to prevent people from harming others because of age, gender or race, we need laws to stop people from harming each other because of face. National studies show that people are chosen for Fraternity or Sorority membership based on how much their face aligns to the arbitrary “Golden Ratio” of … Continue reading

Does having “things in common” matter?

Everyone on a dating site has “things in common”. They want a relationship, they are open to a relationship, they do some things for work and some things for fun. The term “things in common” came from high-society social protocol training in older countries where it meant that certain people were from the same bloodlines … Continue reading

Are you dating an addict? Are YOU an addict?

Addiction is when you repeatedly do something because it lights up the “bliss center” in your brain and you are not aware you are doing it outside of your conscious control. If you are addicted to one thing, are dating partners assuming you are “weak-willed” or have an overall bad tendency to be manipulated, or … Continue reading



“High Society” and “Class-Restrictive” Social Programming

Are you buying into the ” elite society trap”. What are the worst manifestations of Eugenics? Try to avoid being sucked into the “Golden Ratio” programming. Amber- “Creating an Aryan society is a bad thing that yuppie society groups do to young people to condition them to perform a worker function for corporations by using … Continue reading

VIDEO: ‘Did you fall from heaven?’: D.C. dishes on pick-up lines

What’s the worst pick-up line you’ve ever heard? And is there even one that works? PostTV heads to happy hour to ask people some of the most effective and most cringe-worthy lines they’ve heard or said.

How To Spot FAKE PROFILE “SHILLS” on Dating Sites!

Online Dating Shills A number of people you meet on online dating sites are paid to be on there and pretend to be single and interested in you. These kinds of people are called “Shills”. Match.com, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish, etc. pay, or otherwise compensate them with free memberships or coupons, to entice you to be interested … Continue reading

“Can Men and Women who met on a dating site be just Friends” – THE EPIC FEATURE FILM

PART ONE: PART TWO: PART THREE: PART FOUR:   THE WHOLE FILM:     Online Dating: A Man’s Guide For Women Seeking Love On Match.com SPECIAL FROM BetterAfter50 By A. Chertorofsky I am a single widowed man age 49 who has met some personable, attractive women on Match.com. But it … attractive women on Match.com. … Continue reading

How is dating before you are 30, different than dating after you are 30?

Teen Dating Urgent Message to young girls from a Mom:Women have chemicals in their brains that release after sex (one is called oxytocin), that makes them manically possessive about the person they just had the sex with. Men have no such chemical and men will be off sleeping with your best friend, right after having … Continue reading

The End of Courtship

The End of Courtship (C) New York Times By ALEX WILLIAMS MAYBE it was because they had met on OkCupid. But when the dark-eyed musician with artfully disheveled hair asked Shani Silver, a social media and blog manager in Philadelphia, out on a “date” Friday night, she was expecting at least a drink, one on one. “At 10 … Continue reading

VIDEO: ‘The Bachelor’ Star Ben Flajnik Met His Girlfriend on Tinder

If at first you don’t succeed on reality television, try, try Tinder. Ben Flajnik was “The Bachelor” in the 16th cycle of ABC’s hit series, but he and his final rose recipient, Courtney Robertson, didn’t exactly go on to live happily ever after. Since courting in front of millions didn’t work out for him, Flajnik … Continue reading

Douchebag Heaven has arrived with: LUXY!

Douchebag Heaven has arrived with: LUXY! – DOUCHEBAG CRISIS HITS NEW LOW– SOME FEAR DOUCHEBAG CRISIS WORSE THAN EBOLA     Luxy is the dating app for wealthy, attractive douchebags. At last! By Mark Morford For SF GATE “What a great service!” “What a genius idea!” “Why didn’t someone think of this before?” These and other … Continue reading

VIDEO: 7 Tips For Better Sex

Just the tips.

How Women Can Make Money Just By Dating

How Can Women Make Money Just By Dating? Charge the men for sex or make them buy you dinners and dresses! BUT That is illegal! So don’t do it!

Does accepting a “date” offer mean you are acknowledging that there is a 60% chance, or better, that you might sleep with them?

Nobody knows what the term “date” means. Modern teens do not even use the term, they refer to having a “hook-up”, which generally just means getting together for sex. When somebody says, to you: “Do you want to go out?”, or “Would you like to get together?” or “Are you doing anything tonite?”; how often … Continue reading

Why is it so hard to stay “broken up”?

Why First Breakups Never Last Have you seen that people who had wild, hot, relationships and then huge screaming “I-hate-you-forever”, “you-are-scum”, break-ups are right back together 30 days later? Are you as baffled as every single other person who saw the cycle begin? Do you remember when he or she swore up and down that … Continue reading

What does the term “to date” mean?

The Dictionary DEFINITIONS of Date: PARTY: 1.  (verb, transitive) To engage in markedly heterosexual activities (e.g., “She’s dressed like she wants to party.”) 2. (adj.) Exemplifying a proclivity for heterosexual activity (e.g., “I hear she’s a  party girl.”) 3. (noun) A social gathering. DATE: Function: verb 1 : to determine the date of <date an … Continue reading

Ever heard of a Pre-Dating Agreement? Now you have!!!!

  P R E – R E L A T I O N S H I P  A G R E E M E N T The party of the first part (herein referred to as “She”), being of sound mind and pretty good body, agrees to the following with the party of the second … Continue reading

VIDEO: Dr. Ruth, 86: I have sex all the time

Irrepressible sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer, now 86, is out with a new book about overcoming tragedy and loss. But she still manages to dish out some love and sex advice to TODAY viewers along with KLG and Hoda.

VIDEO: ‘Did you fall from heaven?’: D.C. dishes on pick-up lines

What’s the worst pick-up line you’ve ever heard? And is there even one that works? PostTV heads to happy hour to ask people some of the most effective and most cringe-worthy lines they’ve heard or said.

VIDEO: Dr. Ruth, 86: I have sex all the time

Irrepressible sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer, now 86, is out with a new book about overcoming tragedy and loss. But she still manages to dish out some love and sex advice to TODAY viewers along with KLG and Hoda.

VIDEO: How To Kill Approach Anxiety | Marni Dating

Conquering your nerves is key, and that’s why Marni’s back to give you some easy tips for getting over you anxiety next time you lock eyes with the woman of your dreams!


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